Forgiveness

Flower Essence and Essential Oil Spray

Purpose: To let go of bitterness and old grudges.

Essential oil: Marjoram flower essence is for those experiencing grief, sorrow and vulnerability within a relationship, where roles were established and responsibilities shared. Often the bitterness and grudges stem from your own feelings of unworthiness and self doubt projected onto the other person. Marjoram brings comfort as it calms and soothes fears of being alone and vulnerable. It restores inner strength and the confidence in one's ability to be self-reliant. So as an essential oil, Marjoram will work on this level to help release the bitterness and old grudges as you restore the worthiness in yourself.

Flower Essences:  The flower essence clears the mind of old pursuits (i.e. grudges and bitterness), enhancing the ability for one to hear a distinct “inner voice” that helps in resolving the old grudges and let go of bitterness. The essence also strengthens an individual's moral conscience (or “inner light”), which can be empowering against social pressures that hinder one from reaching their potential such as holding on to grudges and bitterness.

Label:  Logo is of alfalfa flower which is a nourishing flower. The flower essence is about scarcity and plenty and unworthiness and often grudges come from not feeling you got enough or are worthy enough. It’s a reminder to let go & nourish self instead.

Use:  Shake really well before each use as essential oils separate and sink to bottom and you will use up the essential oils and it will stop smelling. Spray up to 3 times a day with first thing in the morning and before you go to bed being most important. Start with 3 sprays at each time, but if you find you’re becoming too emotional, reduce the amount of sprays at each time. Also, spray 3 times on self when feeling bitter or old grudges come up. Best practice is to write why you are using this spray at beginning, use for a month straight, and then evaluate at end of month where you are at. If you still feel the same or feel it hasn’t shifted enough, use for another month. Then use spray only when you feel old feelings of bitterness or grudges coming up again as they might surface from time to time. 

Amount:  90mL in the spray bottle and using it daily in recommended instructions lasts about 2-3 months. Size 2” x 2” x 5.5”.

Caution: Do not use if allergic to the essential oil. Be sure to avoid the eyes when spraying and do not take internally. If allergic reaction occurs, stop using it immediately – you can then contact Phoenix Health and the spray can be made up without the essential oils in them. Some people are more sensitive and can become overly emotional; they should reduce the amount of times to twice a day first. Then if that is still too much, reduce the amount of sprays to one each time. But note the difference between it being too intense to handle and releasing emotions that need releasing. The release is healthy, too intense or too often a release is unhealthy. You are the best judge for what you can handle and are in control of how often you take it.

Brief explanation of how they work: Essential oils are carried through the olfactory/smell receptors and nerves to the limbic system of the brain. Your limbic system controls your states of emotions, so the essential oils help modify your emotions.

The flower essences are energetic remedies made from the flower of the plant. There is no biomaterial in the flower essences, so allergies are not a concern when taking them. They usually work gently on the emotional, mental and spiritual level helping bring forth realizations around your issue and release old patterns of thinking or feeling.

Ian White, an Australian flower essence practitioner and teacher, said that when you take them for past traumas, you don't have to consciously live through the trauma again, the flower essences just lift it from the psyche, healing it. So you may experience a healing crisis of sorts, but you don't have to actively live the trauma.

When you get emotional, it is releasing those stored emotions from your body and healing those old wounds. Again, if it is becoming too intense for you, reduce the amount of times or sprays.